You're Worth It

It’s in the innate nature of women to let their maternal instinct take over and put other people first than doing things that will make them truly happy. We spend too much time goggling on other people’s perfect lives that we only have time to criticize our own and forget to recognize what’s good in our lives. We work so hard to be accepted and loved by others but we refuse to work on accepting ourselves.

It’s time to do you.

It’s time to be you.

It’s time to love you.

You deserve the love you give to others. You deserve the effort you offer to others. You deserve the time you willingly give to others.

You are worth the trouble

Don’t feel bad when you expect the guy you’re dating to step up his game. Don’t feel bad for having standards. Don’t lower your standards just so he could keep up. If he really likes you, then he will step up. Any less than that means he’s not the right guy for you.

It’s not your fault that you have an idea of romance. It’s perfectly normal. It’s okay to set expectations and expect guys to live up to it but don’t expect them to start developing unrealistic superpowers for you. Of course, for them to live up to it, there are instances that you would have to insinuate the idea to them or even say it straight to their faces. They can’t just guess what you’re thinking every single time. Let them know what’s making you upset.

You are worth the wait

Figure out your own pace and stick to it. Don’t let pressure get to you.

“What if he leaves when I make him wait too long?”

Then he doesn’t see your worth. You’re just another conquest for him that took too much time to surmount. Why is he in such a hurry if his goal is to spend the rest of your life with him? Think about it. It’s not your fault that you made him wait. It’s his fault that he didn’t wait long enough.

You are worth being the only one

Do not settle being the number one in a pool of other numbers. You can be the ONLY one. Why are you even settling sharing him with other women? Settling means you’re accepting the fact that you’re not enough for him and acknowledging the fact that he needs other women to make him happy.

You are not an option.

You deserve to be the one and only for him.

Sweetie, you are worth the whole world to the right man. Why settle for Mr. Right Now if you can live happily ever after with Mr. Right?